Walk tall because, as Dr. Seuss said, ” you have brains in your head – you have feet in your shoes – you can steer yourself – any direction you choose.”
If you’ve been reading my blog this year, you will remember that my commitment was to share my life experiences and what I have learned from them. When I look back over my posts I have mainly been true to this commitment. What I have not shared is the circuitous path that I have taken to get to where I am at today. A high level view of this path is below.
- Early Years – Having a mother who had a career outside the home – March post
- Formative Years – Choir practice with the Nuns – April post
- First Job – Fired for sitting down on the job – May post
- First Professional Job – I.B.M. and the metal monster – May 17 post
- Punching the Clock – The job that put the food on that table – Coming soon
- Back to School – Seeking That Professional Career – Coming soon
- Running a Small Business – The Agony of Defeat – Coming soon
- Having a Career – Where the education got me – Coming soon
- Founding a Non-Profit – The Legacy We Leave – Coming soon
- What’s Next? – Can An Old Dog Learn New Tricks – This post
As you can see I am going to run ahead and go to the end of this path and then go back and walk you along with me. The reason I am jumping ahead is because I am experiencing one of those “significant emotional events” in my life. I have a new boss and for the first time in a long time I have someone who is going to give me some coaching to get forward momentum on my career. The start of this coaching has me wondering if I can indeed change some the things that will help me to progress. When faced with a challenge you may realize by now that I turn to reading. This time is no different. I have purchased three books (I need a lot of help), “Reinventing You” by Dorie Clark, “What To Ask The Person In The Mirror” by Robert Kaplan, and” What You’re Really Meant To Do” also by Kaplan.
I am just starting to read these books, but one theme that they all have in common is the need to solicit honest feedback. They suggest 360 reviews from not only your peers, but in order to get a full perspective, that you include feedback from a subset of everyone that you interact with on a daily basis. My “coach” has started this with my permission by getting some feedback. The focus of this feedback was what was seen as my strengths and weaknesses. This feedback was welcome but at the same time a bit daunting and caused me to wonder if there are just some aspects of being me that I may not be able to change. Not that I really see myself as an “old dog,” but let’s face it I have been around for a long time and some of these things that may just an intrinsic part of who I am.
In her book, Dorie Clark writes about changing your personal brand. She recommends that in order to start this effort you need to understand how you are perceived today and then determine how you need to be perceived in order to move to the next phase of your career journey. Some feedback that I have received is that I need to be “less casual” and that I often give less informed input on “technical topics.” I can rationalize both of them, but in the end it is all about how I am perceived. With that in mind, I am trying to determine if what my coach has said are “just small changes to my approach,” or are these really behaviors that will be much more difficult for me to change.
I would like to think that my casualness is an asset in that I treat all levels of the organization with equal respect, from the night janitor who I see often to the CEO who I see less often. I will continue to smile and interact in the same casual manner. As for the input on technical topics, I have found that it is very effective when in a discussion with highly technical individuals to ask a dumb question or make a seemingly less informed statement. This normally causes them to rise to the occasion and explain what is really happening in terms that any layman can understand. It challenges them to think and interact in a different manner. I call this “get the crayons out” we’re going to talk to Doris.
My commitment is to finish reading the books and continue meeting with my coach. Once I have done that, I will then determine how I can make some changes in my behaviors and personal brand. I would like to invite you to give me your thoughts on my strengths and weaknesses. Please feel free to email them to me at email@example.com. If you prefer to remain anonymous, just write them on a slip of paper and slip it under my office door.
Oh and to close the “old dog” comment, here is an article from Cathy Perme that I find puts it all into perspective. http://www.cmperme.com/pdf/cmp0513.pdf